Rev. Melinda Townsend, MDiv, MPhil, MSOL

Certified Spiritual Director 

Life rarely unfolds in a straight line. Sometimes changes are ones we choose; other times they arrive unexpectedly, challenging what we believe, how we understand ourselves, or where we find meaning. I believe these times of transition can also become invitations to deeper awareness, discovery, and spiritual growth.

A little about me

• A life of transitions. I have served in the United States Marine Corps, spent 25 years as a Catholic Sister with the Sisters of Social Service, and later became an ordained minister in the United Church of Christ. These experiences have shaped my understanding of faith, identity, belonging, and the unexpected ways life unfolds.

• Cultural experiences. Growing up amid the rich intersection of Hispanic, Indigenous, and Anglo cultures in northern New Mexico, and living in Mexico during my teenage years, gave me a lasting appreciation for cultures and traditions beyond my own. I am bilingual in English and Spanish.

• Ministry and leadership. My experience includes youth ministry, camping ministry, pastoral ministry, retreat work, and nonprofit leadership, including 15 years developing programs for families experiencing homelessness, veterans, and affordable housing residents.

• Education and spiritual formation. I hold graduate degrees in divinity, systematic theology, and organizational leadership. I am a certified spiritual director trained in the Benedictine tradition at Benet Hill Monastery and a certified Yoga teacher. My approach draws on Christian contemplative spirituality, liberation and feminist theology, and wisdom from other spiritual traditions.

How I accompany others

Spiritual direction is about deep listening. I don't presume to have the answers to another person's spiritual journey. Rather, I offer companionship as we listen together for where the Sacred may be stirring, inviting change, or revealing something new in your life.

Through my independent practice, I offer a welcoming, confidential, and nonjudgmental space where people can bring their whole selves—their questions, doubts, hopes, struggles, and joys—just as they are. Whether you are rooted in a faith tradition, questioning long-held beliefs, experiencing loss or transition, or simply longing for a deeper connection with the Sacred, you are welcome without judgment, pressure, or expectation. You don't need to have a particular religious belief or know exactly what you're seeking.

We begin wherever you find yourself and we listen deeply to what is emerging.