Definition of Spiritual Direction:

I believe spiritual direction is a sacred relationship and a shared journey of listening, exploring, and discerning the presence and movement of Spirit in our lives. I see it as an opportunity to slow down, create space for silence and reflection, and become more attentive to the ways our loving God is present in both the extraordinary and ordinary moments of life. Through compassionate listening, thoughtful questions, and an openness to mystery, I seek to accompany others as they explore their questions, experiences, struggles, hopes, and deepest longings. My role is not to provide answers or tell someone what to believe, but rather to create a safe and welcoming space where they can listen more deeply to themselves, recognize the presence of the sacred, and discover where the Spirit may be inviting them. Ultimately, I believe spiritual direction is about nurturing a deeper awareness of the unconditional love that surrounds us and helps us become more fully who we are created to be.

Brief Bio:

Originally from Kentucky, Ben Freville has called Chicago home for most of his life. He has spent much of his professional life in education, working in a variety of educational settings, with the past 25 years devoted primarily to higher education. He has also served in pastoral ministry, accompanying and supporting refugees and immigrants. Ben holds graduate degrees in theology and special education, as well as an Ed.D. in Special Education and Educational Psychology. He completed a Certificate in Spiritual Direction at Benet Hill Monastery in Colorado.

Ben brings to spiritual direction a deep appreciation for listening, genuine human connection, and the ways Spirit moves in our everyday lives. He enjoys accompanying others as they explore their spiritual journeys, questions, and longings. Outside of spiritual direction, Ben is an avid gardener, enjoys spending time outdoors, and especially treasures long walks with his wife and their two dogs.